ploring how I could create a space for this in the representa-
tion of self. So, from then on, this idea of “Yes, And” led my
beauty decisions.
My basket at the drugstore was no longer just a sea
of hair gel for slick backs or frizz cream for silk presses. In
came the SheaMoisture curl creams and the deep hydration
repair masks. My newly expanded beauty routine, inspired
by the infinite opportunities provided by natural hair, be-
came a ritual rooted in versatility, exploration, and growth
as I added new styles to my repertoire. And, this adaptabil-
ity became more fulfilling than following any beauty stan-
dard or trend marketed to me. I was loving and learning
about a million equally wonderful versions of me, guided
by the idea of always pushing for more. This is something
that I’ve carried with me and has defined both my twenties
and my career as a Black beauty writer who loves to try new
things and champions making room for beauty diversity.
But, let’s make something clear — rocking straight
hair isn’t a crime or a betrayal. When you force yourself
to be one thing, is when you don’t honor how eclectic and
inventive your potential is. Yes, I am the me with straight
hair, and I’m also the me with curls, afro puffs, and passion
twists. I control my beauty narrative. I am an individual who
doesn’t feel the need to conform. Yes, I am unapologetically
myself. And, I will continue to evolve. Hair should be fun, so
try playing with it. You can simultaneously test something
new and love what you know. To me, versatility is the best
style choice you can make. It ensures that you’re uniquely
you and prioritizes authenticity over everything else. So,
my recommendation from one beauty lover to another? Try
saying “Yes, And.”
When
you force
yourself to
be one thing is
when you don’t
honor how
eclectic and
inventive your
potential is.
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